But, brothers and sisters, when we were orphaned by being separated from you for a short time (in person, not in thought), out of our intense longing we made every effort to see you. For we wanted to come to you—certainly I, Paul, did, again and again—but Satan blocked our way. For what is our hope, our joy, or the crown in which we will glory in the presence of our Lord Jesus when he comes? Is it not you? Indeed, you are our glory and joy.

Have you been separated from someone you love recently? Sometimes this separation is due to geographical preference, career, military service, or death. Other times, one party may have hurt the other and they separate for safety. And then we have the instance Paul is speaking of — a direct attack by Satan.

So the question arises: Who does Satan target and how does he attack? Satan strategically targets those who are front-lines warriors in allegiance to Jesus. Why? 1) They are the ones actively living out their faith and turning people from darkness to the light of Jesus Christ. 2) They are not living comfortable lives, but are bruised up and somewhat weary, involved in helping others and doing the ministry. 3) They are usually hard on themselves, and if he can get them to focus on themselves, they will be sidelined and ineffective in the battle of the ages for the souls of men.

And he attacks them mostly with side-blows, but sometimes directly. If he can tempt them to be prideful and think they are “The Reason” for the good being done in their lives or around them, or maybe they are strong enough to not ask God and others for help, then he will get them to sin.

But if they are steadfast in their faith and persevere through these temptations, he will use those under his control to directly attack them. If I am being directly attacked by Satan, then it may mean that I am waging spiritual warfare, with the strength God gives, effectively. Paul is likely describing a direct attack on his ministry that kept him from visiting the Thessalonians.

He shares this not to garner sympathy but to communicate his love for them. Not only did he miss them and wanted to be with them (feelings), he purposely tried to find plan B and plan C to get to them when plan A was blocked (action). So his love for them went deep and he struggled to find a way to connect with them.

Paul reinforces this by calling them his hope, joy, and crown. Such powerful words here!

Who have I been separated from that God wants me in relationship with? How can I pursue these relationships, and try to repair them?

Lord, thank you that you are in the business of reconciliation. You want to restore broken or separated relationships. You meet me and you heal me and give me the strength to persevere and help to bring healing to those in need.